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Many negative stereotypes of therapists exist from movies and television. Most of us seeking help want to see an individual who appears to need less help than we do – no "crazy shrinks" or "Nurse Ratchets" need apply. Television movies-of-the-week would have us believe that therapists regularly romance their patients and either become the partner of their dreams or attack them in their sleep.
Quality mental health care has absolutely nothing to do with these images. A good therapist understands that he or she is there just and only to help. It is not a two-way relationship. You are purchasing expertise and treatment. You have a right to quality care in return. As in medicine, there is no guarantee of a "cure." But, as in medical care, the first rule is "do no harm."
You have a right to develop a treatment plan in cooperation with your therapist and to see that treatment plan. In general, you will not receive treatment until you consent to treatment (exceptions to this rule may occur if an individual is dangerously suicidal or homicidal). You should be informed of any alternative treatment options. Your therapist may not release any information about you without your express written consent.
Your therapist should be reasonably on time, courteous and open to any questions you may have. He or she should feel like an ally in your efforts to solve a problem. A therapeutic relationship can be an intense relationship, but it is never a social relationship or a sexual one. Sexual overtures from a therapist are never ethical under any circumstances. | 
